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How to Measure Ring Size
A Subtle Art, Not a Guess
Whether you’re shopping for engagement rings, slipping on a wedding band, or surprising a loved one with custom jewelry, the correct size is everything. A ring should feel like it belongs at the base of your finger. Never too loose, never too tight, and always just right.
If you're not sure how to measure ring size—or you're helping someone else find theirs—you're in the right place. We are experts here at Adam Foster Fine Jewelry.
Below, we’ll walk you through simple methods, tips, and tools for getting an accurate ring size from home, as well as what to expect when working with your local jeweler.
Understanding Ring Size Basics
Let’s start with the essentials. In the United States, ring size is typically measured in whole and half sizes, from size 3 up to 13 and beyond. Each size represents a specific diameter of the ring, and even a difference of half a size can affect how comfortably a ring fits.
US ring size vs. international ring size: If you’re comparing sizes from overseas jewelers, use a ring size conversion chart for clarity.
Men’s ring sizes vs. women’s ring sizes: These may vary, but there’s no general rule as finger size is unique to the individual, regardless of gender. That being said, the average ring size for women is typically between size 6 and 7, while men often fall between size 9 and 11.
How to Measure Your Ring Size at Home
You don’t need to leave the house to start figuring out your ring size. Whether you're browsing for a new piece or preparing for a secret gift, these techniques can offer a fairly accurate measurement.
1. Use a Piece of String or a Strip of Paper
Wrap a piece of string or a strip of paper around the base of your finger (where the ring will sit). Mark where it overlaps, then lay it flat and measure the length in millimeters. Use a ring size chart to match your measurement to the corresponding size.
Be sure the string slides over your knuckle comfortably.
Measure at the end of the day, when your fingers are slightly larger.
If you’re between sizes, size up for a more comfortable fit.
2. Measure a Ring You Already Own
If you have an existing ring that fits the intended ring finger, you can measure its inside diameter and compare it to a printable ring size chart or a ring size guide. Just make sure the ring you're measuring matches the ring style you’re planning to buy.
3. Try a Printable Ring Sizer
Many jewelers offer a free ring sizer tool. These templates allow you to either place a ring on a chart or cut out a sizing strip to wrap around your finger like a measuring tape. Be sure your print settings are set to 100% scale for an accurate ring size.
Ring Sizing Tips from Our Jewelers
Here at Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, our team of expert jewelers and master jewelers has helped countless clients find their perfect fit. Here are a few of our favorite ring sizing tips:
Time of day matters: Finger size fluctuates throughout the day. Measure at the end of the day when your fingers are largest.
Temperature affects fit: Warm fingers swell slightly, while cold fingers contract. Aim to measure in a neutral climate.
Wider bands require a larger size for a comfortable fit: A solitaire ring will fit differently from a bold custom design.
When in doubt, visit a local jeweler for an in-store fitting: It’s quick, precise, and gives you peace of mind.
When Do You Need a Resize?
Even with careful measuring, ring resizing is sometimes part of the journey. Maybe your finger size has changed, or your grandmother’s ring is just a little too snug. Our jewelry services include precise resizing for engagement rings, wedding rings, and other fine pieces. Whether it’s a delicate prong setting or a thick shank, we handle every piece with the respect it deserves.
Resizing often involves soldering and reworking the custom jewelry without disturbing its integrity. We also inspect the center stone, clasp, and structure to ensure everything remains secure.
The Adam Foster Fine Jewelry Experience
At our St. Louis jewelry store, we believe that every piece of jewelry tells a story. That story should begin with a perfect fit. From the elegance of lab-grown diamonds to the timeless charm of heirlooms passed down through generations, we tailor every step to you.
If you're unsure where to start, or if you’re helping someone else measure their finger size, we're here to guide you. And if the ring doesn’t fit just right? Come see us for an expert ring sizing consultation. We’ll make sure your engagement ring, wedding band, or custom creation is not just beautiful, but beautifully worn.
Stop by our intimate studio! Appointments are encouraged, but walk-ins are always welcome!
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Lab Grown Diamonds
Lab-grown diamonds are changing the way people think about engagement rings and fine jewelry. These stunning stones offer all the brilliance, durability, and emotional impact of natural diamonds — with the added benefits of accessibility, sustainability, and transparency. At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we offer a wide variety of high-quality laboratory-grown diamonds in both classic and unique shapes, ideal for everything from timeless solitaires to more unconventional designs.
If you’re considering a lab-grown diamond for your engagement ring or custom piece, this guide will help you understand the process, benefits, and how they compare to their natural counterparts.
What Are Lab-Grown Diamonds?
Also known as man-made diamonds, synthetic diamonds, or cultured diamonds, lab-grown diamonds are real diamonds that are created in a laboratory environment rather than mined from the earth. Unlike diamond simulants such as moissanite or cubic zirconia, lab-grown diamonds share the same physical properties, chemical composition, and crystal structure as natural diamonds.
Lab-created diamonds are formed using two main methods:
CVD (Chemical Vapor Deposition): In this method, a diamond seed (a sliver of pure carbon) is placed in a chamber filled with carbon-rich gas. Using heat and energy, carbon atoms adhere to the seed layer by layer, forming a diamond crystal.
HPHT (High Pressure High Temperature): This mimics the pressure and temperature conditions found in the earth’s mantle, producing a rough diamond under controlled environment conditions.
Both methods create diamonds that are chemically and optically identical to mined diamonds, with no differences detectable to the naked eye.
Are Lab-Grown Diamonds Real Diamonds?
Yes, lab-grown diamonds are real diamonds. According to the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) and leading gemological institutes like the Gemological Institute of America (GIA) and International Gemological Institute (IGI), lab-created diamonds are indistinguishable from their natural counterparts in terms of composition and durability.
They are graded on the same scale and criteria as mined diamonds: cut, color, clarity (which may include natural inclusions), and carat weight. Every lab-grown diamond we carry is hand-selected by our expert gemologists and comes with a diamond certification for complete confidence in quality.
Benefits of Lab-Grown Diamonds
Choosing a lab-grown diamond means choosing a forward-thinking and ethical approach to diamond jewelry. Some of the most popular reasons our clients choose laboratory-grown diamonds include:
Sustainability: Lab diamonds are created using renewable energy and reduce the environmental impact associated with traditional diamond mining.
Accessibility: You can often get a larger carat weight or higher quality diamond for the same price point as a smaller natural diamond.
Conflict-Free: Lab diamonds offer peace of mind in knowing your stone is responsibly sourced and ethically created.
Beauty & Durability: Lab diamonds rank a 10 on the Mohs scale, just like natural diamonds, offering superior durability and brilliance for daily wear.
Lab Grown vs. Natural Diamonds
When it comes to choosing between lab-grown diamonds and natural diamonds, there’s no right or wrong answer — just what feels right for you.
Lab Grown Diamonds:
Created in a controlled laboratory environment
Chemically identical to natural diamonds
Typically more affordable per carat
Widely available in most diamond shapes and ring settings
Natural Diamonds:
Formed over millions of years in the earth’s mantle
May carry historical or geological significance
Often preferred for heirloom or legacy pieces
We invite you to explore both options in-store with one of our trusted jewelers, who will help you compare side-by-side and select a stone that fits your values, your budget, and your vision.
FAQs About Lab Grown Diamonds
Are lab-grown diamonds good for engagement rings?Yes. Lab-grown diamond engagement rings are a beautiful, high-quality choice that offers lasting brilliance and strength.
Do lab-created diamonds have inclusions?Yes. Like natural diamonds, lab diamonds can contain natural inclusions and are graded accordingly.
Are lab-grown diamonds certified?Absolutely. We only carry diamonds certified by reputable institutions such as GIA and IGI.
What’s the difference between a lab diamond and moissanite?Moissanite is a diamond simulant with different chemical and optical properties. It may appear similar to the naked eye, but it is not a diamond.
Do lab-grown diamonds come in different shapes and sizes?Yes. We offer lab diamonds in every popular shape — round brilliant, emerald cut, princess cut, marquise, and more.
Can I design a custom ring using a lab diamond?Absolutely. You can create a custom engagement ring with any lab-grown diamond from our collection.
What kind of metals can I pair with a lab diamond?Choose from white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, or platinum for your lab diamond setting.
Do lab-grown diamonds come with a warranty?Yes. All of our diamonds, including lab-created ones, are backed by our full warranty.
Let’s Find the Diamond That’s Right for You
Still have questions? Come visit our St. Louis showroom and explore our curated collection of lab-grown diamonds and natural stones. Whether you’re shopping for an engagement ring, a meaningful piece of jewelry, or building a custom design from scratch, we’re here to guide you.
Book a consultation with one of our jewelers and experience the beauty of diamonds — created with intention.
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Finding The Perfect Engagement Ring
Steps to a Meaningful and Confident Decision
Shopping for an engagement ring should feel exciting, not overwhelming. Whether you’re starting from scratch or have a vision in mind, our experienced team of jewelers is here to help you navigate every step — from choosing a diamond shape to finalizing a custom engagement ring design that feels just right for your partner and your story.
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we believe the perfect engagement ring is one that balances beauty, craftsmanship, and personal style. Below, you’ll find thoughtful tips and FAQs to help you begin your journey with clarity and confidence.
Step 1. Set a Comfortable Budget
There’s no one-size-fits-all formula, but having a general budget or range helps focus your engagement ring shopping experience. Some still follow the “two to three months' salary” tradition, while others simply set a price tag based on what feels right. We work within all budgets and will help you explore beautiful options, whether you’re considering natural diamonds, lab-grown diamonds, moissanite, or colored gemstones like sapphires or rubies.
Step 2. Choose Your Center Stone
The center stone is often the focal point of a diamond engagement ring. Our jewelers will help you compare options, including natural diamonds, lab-grown diamonds, moissanite, and even colored gemstones. We'll walk you through the 4Cs, including diamond cut, color, clarity (inclusions), and carat weight, so you can choose with confidence.
Looking at loose stones in-store allows you to evaluate each one clearly and determine which works best with your selected ring setting. You’ll get a transparent look at the details that matter, especially if you're comparing GIA-certified stones.
Popular diamond shapes include round brilliant, emerald cut, oval, and marquise. You may also want to explore three-stone or solitaire engagement ring styles — or halo and bezel setting designs that bring added visual interest.
Step 3. Explore Engagement Ring Settings & Styles
From delicate pavé bands to bold three-stone silhouettes, there are endless ring designs that can reflect your partner’s personal style. Do they love vintage details or clean, modern lines? Are they drawn to a classic round diamond, or something unexpected like an emerald cut or marquise center stone?
We’ll help you pair your chosen center stone with a thoughtful setting. Whether that means selecting from best-selling engagement ring styles or creating a custom engagement ring, our jewelers are here to guide you. Settings are available in white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, and platinum, with each offering a unique look and feel.
Step 4. Don’t Worry About Ring Size
Not sure about your partner's ring size? You're not alone. Here are a few ways to estimate without giving anything away:
Borrow a ring they wear on their ring finger and bring it into our jewelry store for measurement
Ask a close family member or friend who might know their partner’s ring size
Request a complimentary ring sizer from our showroom
If the fit isn’t perfect, we offer complimentary resizing, often done within a day.
Step 5. Think About the Future
While the engagement ring takes center stage now, the wedding band will soon join the spotlight. It’s worth thinking ahead about how your selected design will pair with a wedding band. Some styles, like a solitaire or pavé setting, stack seamlessly. Others, like a dramatic halo or three-stone ring, may call for a custom band or bridal set.
Also, consider if your piece of jewelry might include meaningful engraving, or if you’re interested in a matching ring for your significant other. Every detail — from prongs to metal finish — should feel intentional.
Engagement Ring Shopping FAQs
What is the difference between natural and lab-grown diamonds?Both are real diamonds with the same visual and chemical properties. The difference lies in origin — one is mined from the earth, the other created in a lab. Many clients opt for lab-grown diamonds for value and sustainability.
What is the most durable engagement ring metal?All of our metals — white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, and platinum — are durable, but platinum offers the highest density and wear resistance.
What engagement ring styles are trending right now?Solitaire, pavé, bezel setting, and hidden halo designs remain popular. Three-stone and vintage-inspired ring styles are also on the rise.
Can I create a custom engagement ring?Yes! We specialize in custom engagement rings and can build a one-of-a-kind design around any stone, heirloom, or idea.
Do your diamonds come with certification?Yes. We provide certification from respected grading institutions such as the Gemological Institute of America (GIA).
Is there a warranty included with my purchase?Every engagement ring includes a full warranty. We’ll review all terms and coverage details with you at checkout.
Ready to Find the Perfect Engagement Ring?
Our team is here to make the process feel effortless and exciting. Whether you want to browse in-store or schedule a one-on-one consultation, we’re here to help you design or discover a ring that’s worthy of your story.
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4 Cs of Diamonds
Diamond Education: The 4 C's
A Buying Guide
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we know that while every diamond is unique, there is a shared language for each individual diamond’s value and character. That language begins with the 4 Cs of diamonds: Cut, Color, Clarity, and Carat Weight.
What are the 4 Cs?
Developed by the Gemological Institute of America (GIA), the diamond 4Cs offer a universal grading system to assess a diamond’s quality, beauty, and worth. Understanding the 4 Cs provides the foundation for finding the perfect diamond.
If you are selecting a diamond engagement ring for someone special, or simply learning more about fine diamond jewelry, come to our studio in the heart of St. Louis to get hands-on knowledge and ask your questions.
Each diamond we source is accompanied by a GIA grading report, offering a clear, expert-backed assessment of the stone’s characteristics. But beyond the report, we help our clients see what really matters: how the diamond makes you feel, and how it tells your story.
Cut
Of all the Cs, diamond cut has the greatest impact on a diamond’s overall appearance. It defines how a diamond interacts with light and how much it sparkles. It is often mistaken for “shape,” like round or marquise; however, the cut is about how the diamond’s facets are angled and proportioned to produce maximum reflection.
Its cut grade—ranging from poor cut to excellent cut—reflects the diamond’s symmetry, proportions, and polish. For example, a well-cut diamond will show exceptional scintillation, brilliance, and fire.
So, whether you’re drawn to a classic round brilliant diamond or a more modern brilliant cut, a masterfully cut diamond will always stand out, regardless of its carat weight or color grade.
Color
Diamond color refers to the presence or absence of color within the stone. The GIA color scale ranks diamonds from D (completely colorless) to Z (noticeable yellow or brown tones).
Colorless diamonds (D–F) are prized for their icy clarity.
Near colorless diamonds (G–J) still appear white to the naked eye, especially when well-set.
Beyond J, a diamond begins to show warm undertones, which may or may not appeal depending on personal taste.
It’s important to note that this scale applies to white diamonds. Color diamonds—like yellows or blues—follow a different grading process.
At Adam Foster, our jewelers can help you explore a range of diamond color options, balancing beauty, the value of a diamond, and your budget.
Clarity
No two diamonds are completely alike, and clarity is where their unique fingerprint becomes visible. This C refers to the presence of inclusions (internal characteristics) and blemishes (external marks) formed naturally over millions of years.
Graded under 10x magnification, the clarity scale runs from flawless and internally flawless, through levels like VVS1, VVS2, and down to I1–I3, where inclusions may be more noticeable.
While flawless diamonds are exceedingly rare, many inclusions are microscopic and invisible to the naked eye. A clarity grade like VS1 or SI1 often offers excellent diamond quality with greater affordability.
Whether you’re selecting lab-grown diamonds or natural diamonds, our expert gemologists help you find diamond clarity that balances visual appeal with your personal taste.
Carat Weight
The final C, carat weight, measures the weight of a diamond, not just its visual size. One carat equals 200 milligrams. However, the diamond carat weight can appear differently depending on the diamond shapes and how the weight is distributed.
A round brilliant may carry its weight in depth, while an oval or marquise shape can appear larger at the same weight. Additionally, two diamonds with identical carat weight may look quite different if one is poorly cut and the other is perfectly proportioned.
For couples considering wedding rings or engagement rings, we guide you through carat options to find a stone that suits your style, finger, and setting without compromising brilliance.
Shape
Shape is not technically one of the four Cs, but it plays a vital role in the diamond’s appearance and how it complements your hand or setting. The most popular shape forever remains the round brilliant because of its classic look, but we see brides choose interesting shapes like briolette, cushion, asscher, and more.
Each shape interacts differently with light and has its own character. Some maximize sparkle while others elongate the finger or offer a vintage aesthetic.
Let your preference lead the way, and we’ll help you select a shape that resonates.
Natural vs. Lab-Grown
Both natural diamonds and lab-grown diamonds can be graded using the same GIA standards. The 4 Cs apply to both, with diamond grading based on the same metrics and grading scale. Lab-grown diamonds offer an ethical and budget-friendly alternative while still delivering stunning brilliance and beauty.
Finding the Right Balance
There is no universal formula for choosing the ideal diamond. The perfect diamond is the one that fits your vision. You may prefer a slightly larger carat with a near colorless tone. Or you may choose a well-cut diamond with a slightly lower clarity that still looks radiant to the naked eye.
Our team of jewelers will walk you through each step, explaining what each detail means and how it fits into your personal buying journey. Whether you're drawn to a VVS2 clarity or enchanted by a stone with excellent cut, we are here to guide you toward a diamond that speaks in your own language.
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Difference Between 14k vs 18k Gold
Which One Should You Choose?
Gold has been a statement of luxury, tradition, and craftsmanship for centuries…but not all gold is the same. If you’re choosing between 14k gold and 18k gold, the decision comes down to more than just shine or status. It’s about how you live, what you love, and how you want your piece of jewelry to age with you.
Let’s explore the type of gold that fits your lifestyle best, whether you’re selecting a gold ring for daily wear, a diamond engagement ring to last a lifetime, or a delicate band meant for special occasions.
Understanding the Karat System
Before diving into comparisons, it helps to understand what a karat is, which is the unit that measures the purity of gold. Not to be confused with carat, which measures gemstone weight, karat tells us how much pure gold is in a piece.
24k gold is 100% pure gold, known for its deep yellow color, but oftentimes too malleable for most fine jewelry.
18k gold is 75% gold, mixed with 25% alloy metals like copper, silver, or palladium.
14k gold is 58.3% gold, blended with a higher percentage of alloys, making it more rugged and less expensive.
Each blend offers something different, such as tone, strength, price, and longevity.
The Case for 14k Gold
14k gold jewelry is a popular choice for good reason. Its blend of durable and gold alloys makes it ideal for everyday wear, particularly for those with an active lifestyle. The added strength helps protect your piece from dents, scratches, and wear over time, especially in styles with delicate prongs or intricate designs.
If you choose 14k yellow gold, expect a slightly softer hue compared to 18k, but still full of warmth and character. For 14k rose gold, the copper tones come through beautifully, offering a rich blush that flatters many skin tones. 14k white gold, usually finished with rhodium plating, has a bright, silvery glow that complements both modern and vintage styles.
This gold is well-suited for wedding bands, engagement rings, and stackable gold pieces meant to move with you through life.
The Appeal of 18k Gold
18 karat gold offers a higher gold content and a more luxurious feel. Its richer color, especially in 18k yellow gold and 18k rose gold, carries an unmistakable depth and glow that appeals to those drawn to the classic elegance of a higher karat gold.
Because it contains a higher percentage of pure gold, 18k gold jewelry tends to be softer and slightly more prone to dents, but it also brings more of a soft luster and enhanced weight that many associate with fine jewelry. The 18k white gold version offers a slightly warmer undertone compared to its 14k counterpart, especially when paired with rhodium plating.
18k is often chosen for special occasions, heirlooms, and wedding rings that mark milestones and moments.
Choosing Between 14k vs 18k Gold
Durability: If your jewelry will be worn daily and needs to withstand a high amount of movement, 14k may be the better match.
Color and Luxury: If you want a richer color or a piece with higher gold content, 18k brings elegance with a slightly elevated price point.
Budget: 14k gold is more budget-friendly, while 18k carries a higher price difference due to its gold percentage.
Skin Sensitivity: For those with sensitive skin, hypoallergenic alloys in 18k gold may reduce the risk of allergic reactions, although many 14k blends are also safe with proper alloy selection.
Personal Preference: In the end, your personal preference and connection to the piece of jewelry will guide you more than numbers ever could.
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, our jewelers are here to help you choose. Whether you're designing a gold ring, creating a custom wedding band, or selecting the perfect gold jewelry for someone you love, we’ll walk you through every step—side by side—so you can create something beautiful.
Let’s Create Something Meaningful Together
Stop by our intimate studio to browse our selection of fine jewelry or talk with a consultant about designing something in 14k or 18k. Appointments are encouraged, but walk-ins are always welcome!
Contact us today.
Anniversary Gifts by Year: A Complete Guide from 1 to 100
Every wedding anniversary marks not only the passage of time but also the growth of a love story. For centuries, couples have celebrated these milestones with anniversary gifts that carry special meaning. Some follow traditional gifts rooted in history, while others embrace modern themes that reflect today’s lifestyle. Whether it is the first year together or the 60th anniversary, giving a thoughtful present turns an ordinary date into a special occasion.
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we believe an anniversary gift should feel as enduring as the marriage it celebrates. This gift guide explores each anniversary year from one to one hundred, offering inspiration drawn from both classic traditions and modern updates.
Why Anniversary Gifts Matter
Marriage is a journey, and each year of marriage holds its own story. Choosing a gift is about honoring that journey, whether with gemstones, gold jewelry, silverware, or simple, thoughtful gifts that bring joy to daily life. While many couples gravitate toward fine jewelry, other options, such as home décor, cookware, or a romantic date night, also hold meaning.
Anniversaries are not just another calendar marker. They are a reminder of promises made, challenges overcome, and moments cherished. The right gift becomes a keepsake, treasured long after the day has passed.
A Year-by-Year Anniversary Gift Guide
The Early Years: Building Memories
1st Anniversary: PaperThe first anniversary is traditionally marked with paper, symbolizing a fresh story just beginning. Modern anniversary gifts often include a picture frame filled with memories from the first year or a handwritten love letter.
2nd Anniversary: CottonCotton speaks to the comfort and adaptability of marriage. Gift ideas include soft blankets or custom textiles.
3rd Anniversary: LeatherDurable yet flexible, leather represents strength. A leather journal or keepsake box makes a meaningful choice.
4th Anniversary: Fruit or FlowersCelebrate with fresh abundance, perhaps paired with gemstones like garnet for added color.
5th Anniversary: WoodThe fifth anniversary highlights strength and rootedness. A wooden jewelry box or piece of carved home décor can be the perfect gift.
6th Anniversary: Iron or CandyBoth strong and sweet. Sixth anniversary gifts may include decorative iron pieces or something playful like gourmet chocolate.
10th Anniversary: Tin or AluminumA decade together deserves something lasting yet practical. Consider stainless steel watches, cufflinks, or even cookware.
The Milestone Years: Precious Metals and Gemstones
15th Anniversary: CrystalThe clarity of the crystal reflects transparency in marriage. A fine crystal vase or a pendant with a clear gemstone can honor the day.
20th Anniversary: ChinaSymbolizing delicate beauty, china gifts are often paired with modern alternatives like platinum jewelry.
25th Anniversary: SilverThe 25th anniversary is one of the most celebrated, known as the Silver Jubilee. Sterling silver jewelry, elegant silverware, or silver pieces of fine jewelry are timeless anniversary presents.
40th Anniversary: RubyForty years together burns bright like a flame, and ruby is the traditional anniversary gift. A ruby ring or pendant makes one of the best gifts imaginable.
50th Anniversary: GoldThe 50th anniversary is the Golden Jubilee. Gold jewelry, whether in white gold, yellow gold, or rose gold, shines as an enduring symbol of love.
60th Anniversary: DiamondThe 60th anniversary is synonymous with diamonds (or lab-grown diamonds), representing brilliance and endurance. A diamond engagement ring renewed as an anniversary gift celebrates this unmatched milestone.
Gemstones by Anniversary Year
Throughout the decades, different gemstones also mark anniversaries:
1st Year: Gold jewelry accents or pearls
6th Year: Amethyst
8th Year: Tourmaline
10th Year: Diamond jewelry
14th Year: Opal
16th Year: Peridot
23rd Year: Topaz
45th Year: Sapphire
80th Year: Ruby once again, reinforcing eternal love.
These stones offer couples the chance to customize their anniversary gift ideas with unique jewelry pieces, from solitaire pendants to engagement ring redesigns that incorporate birthstones or favorite hues.
Beyond the 50th: Rare and Remarkable
As anniversaries stretch past half a century, traditions become rarer, but the meaning only deepens.
70th Anniversary: Platinum - Rare and enduring, much like the couple.
75th Anniversary: Diamond Again - A second diamond celebration acknowledges remarkable resilience.
100th Anniversary: While incredibly rare, the anniversary year is a celebration of legacy itself, often honored with family heirlooms, engraved pieces, or custom jewelry that becomes part of history.
Blending Tradition and Modernity
Not every couple resonates with traditional anniversary gifts, and that is perfectly fine. Some prefer modern themes such as desk sets, date night experiences, or contemporary gift ideas that reflect current lifestyles. Modern anniversary gifts include technology upgrades, cookware, or jewelry accented with moissanite for extra bling.
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we help couples strike the right balance. Some may opt for a traditional gift, such as sterling silver, for the first anniversary, while others prefer a modern anniversary gift, like a custom-designed piece of jewelry that reflects their shared journey.
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Thoughtful Gifts that Last
Anniversaries are about more than simply following a list. The best gifts come from knowing your partner’s heart. A simple anniversary present like cufflinks or a keepsake pendant may mean as much as a lavish anniversary year gemstone. For others, experiences like date night, a family trip, or meaningful home décor make the day unforgettable.
Even holidays such as Mother’s Day can be woven into the tradition, as anniversaries often become family celebrations.
FAQs on Anniversary Gifts
Do I need to follow the traditional anniversary gift list?No. While traditional anniversary gifts can inspire wonderful anniversary gift ideas, couples often mix tradition with modern anniversary gifts for a balance that suits their lifestyle.
What are the most popular milestone anniversaries to celebrate?The 25th anniversary, 40th anniversary, 50th anniversary, and 60th anniversary are often marked with larger celebrations and significant gifts.
Can jewelry be given every year?Absolutely. Gold jewelry, gemstones, and custom pieces are among the most enduring anniversary gifts, whether for the first year or the 50th anniversary.
Are gemstones only for milestone years?Not at all. Stones like amethyst, tourmaline, topaz, garnet, and opal can be incorporated into jewelry for any special occasion.
How do I choose the right gift?Think about your partner’s personal style, interests, and what will feel most meaningful. A jeweler can guide you in selecting fine jewelry that complements your taste.
Celebrate Your Story
Every wedding anniversary is an opportunity to pause, reflect, and honor the years shared. From the first anniversary with paper to the 60th anniversary with diamonds, each tradition carries beauty and meaning. At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we create anniversary gifts designed to be treasured for a lifetime, crafted with the same artistry and care that defines your marriage.
Your journey deserves more than an ordinary anniversary present. It deserves a work of art that becomes part of your legacy.
Engagement Ring Rules You Probably Didn’t Know
Buying or receiving an engagement ring is one of life’s most thrilling moments. It is also a moment filled with questions, traditions, and even myths about what is “supposed” to happen. At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we believe your perfect ring should reflect your personal style and your love story, not just a list of traditions. Still, knowing the guidelines and history can help you feel confident as you step into this meaningful part of life.
A Little History of Engagement Ring Etiquette
The tradition of wearing rings on the ring finger of the left hand dates back to the Romans, who believed a vein ran directly from that finger to the heart. Over the centuries, the ring has evolved into a visible promise, worn before the wedding ceremony begins. Today, there are many engagement ring designs to choose from, ranging from classic solitaire settings to bold pavé bands and colorful gemstones like aquamarine or sapphires.
How Much Should an Engagement Ring Cost?
Perhaps the most famous of the so-called engagement ring rules comes from a 20th-century marketing campaign suggesting a groom should spend three months’ salary on the ring. The truth is that there is no fixed rule. Some choose to follow the tradition of two months’ salary or three months’ salary, while others set a budget based on their own circumstances. The average cost of a ring is just that—an average. The only “rule” is to spend an amount that feels right for your relationship.
Choosing the Stone and Style
A diamond engagement ring remains the most popular choice, especially with options like lab-grown diamonds, which provide the same sparkle and cut diamond quality as natural diamonds but at a more accessible price point. Some couples love the timeless look of a round brilliant, while others gravitate toward shapes such as marquise or emerald. Moissanite and other gemstones can also be beautiful alternatives.
When it comes to carat weight, clarity, and sparkle, every center stone tells its own story. The setting also plays a role, whether you love a sleek prong, a dramatic halo, or something entirely vintage-inspired. Engagement ring etiquette has expanded to embrace every ring style imaginable.
Which Hand and Finger?
Traditionally, the engagement ring is worn on the left-hand ring finger, and during the marriage ceremony, the wedding band is placed on the finger first, with the engagement ring stacked above. Some people prefer to wear their engagement ring on the right hand, and in many cultures, that is the norm. Again, personal preference is what matters most.
Pairing with a Wedding Ring
Once the proposal is behind you, thoughts often turn to how the engagement ring will pair with the wedding ring. Some couples opt for a seamless ring set, while others enjoy mixing styles with contrasting metals such as white gold, yellow gold, or rose gold. Whether you prefer a plain metal band, a diamond wedding band, or something custom-designed, the pairing should feel harmonious to the wearer.
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Engagement Ring Rules FAQs
Do I have to spend three months’ salary on an engagement ring?No. The three months’ salary guideline was a marketing campaign from decades ago. The cost of an engagement ring should reflect your budget and your priorities, not a formula.
Can I choose a gemstone other than a diamond?Yes. While the diamond engagement ring remains the most popular choice, gemstones like sapphires, aquamarine, or even an heirloom stone can make a meaningful and distinctive statement.
What if I don’t know my partner’s ring size?A skilled jeweler can help. You can bring in an existing ring worn on the same finger, or we can measure discreetly to find the correct size. If adjustments are needed, ring resizing is always an option.
Which hand should the engagement ring be worn on?Traditionally, the left hand is standard in the United States, but in many cultures, the ring is worn on the right hand. There is no absolute rule.
How do I make sure I choose the perfect ring?Engagement ring etiquette is about guidance, not restrictions. Focus on your partner’s personal style, their lifestyle, and the engagement ring trends that appeal to them. The perfect ring is one that feels right for the two of you.
Write Your Own Rules
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we see engagement ring shopping as a celebration rather than a checklist. From selecting the center stone and exploring engagement ring designs to pairing your ring with a timeless wedding band, our team of expert jewelers will guide you with artistry and care.
In the end, the most important rule is simple: your ring should feel like it was made for your love story.
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Engagement Rings vs. Wedding Ring: What’s the Difference?
When it comes to jewelry that carries the most meaning, engagement rings and the wedding ring stand at the top. Both are cherished symbols of love, but they serve different roles in your journey from proposal to wedding ceremony and beyond. At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we believe that understanding these traditions makes the experience of ring shopping even more meaningful.
The Engagement Ring: A Promise to Begin
The engagement ring marks the start of a new chapter. Traditionally worn on the left-hand ring finger, this piece often features a center stone such as a diamond engagement ring, lab-grown diamond, or gemstones like sapphires. Popular engagement ring styles range from classic solitaire rings and three-stone designs to modern pavé settings and vintage-inspired halos.
The engagement ring is often more ornate than the wedding band, designed to capture attention and tell the start of your love story. Choices of precious metals such as white gold, yellow gold, or rose gold provide both beauty and durability. Whether set in prongs, a bezel, or accented with smaller stones, an engagement ring reflects the wearer’s personal preference and style.
The Wedding Ring: A Circle Without End
The wedding ring is exchanged during the marriage ceremony and represents the lifelong bond of two people. Often called a wedding band, it is usually simpler in design, crafted from precious metals like gold or platinum, though modern styles may include diamond wedding bands, eternity bands, or engraved details.
Classic choices include a plain metal band or a stackable design that pairs beautifully with the engagement ring to create a complete ring set. Both women’s and men’s wedding bands are designed for everyday wear, and their simplicity makes them versatile pieces of fine jewelry.
Wearing Them Together
Most traditions place both rings on the fourth finger of the left hand, with the wedding band worn closest to the heart. Some people choose to wear their diamond ring on the right hand or alternate between the two depending on the occasion. For those who prefer a single ring, a more elaborate wedding band with smaller stones can serve both roles.
There is no single correct way to wear them. Engagement rings and wedding rings ultimately reflect the wearer’s story and personal preference, from minimalist styles to ornate pairings with significant carat weight.
Care and Customization
Both rings are designed to be worn daily, which makes resizing, engraving, and occasional maintenance important. A skilled jeweler ensures the prongs remain secure, the finish is maintained, and the fit is always comfortable. Couples often return to their jeweler for wedding ring sets, anniversary bands, or other special occasions that add to their growing collection of meaningful jewelry.
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A Tradition Rooted in History
The practice of wearing rings on the left-hand ring finger can be traced back to the Romans, who believed a vein ran directly from this finger to the heart. Over centuries, engagement rings and wedding rings have evolved in style and meaning, but they remain enduring symbols of love across cultures.
Engagement Rings vs. Wedding Ring FAQs
What is the main difference between engagement rings and wedding bands?An engagement ring is given at the time of proposal and usually features a center stone like a diamond or colored gemstone. A wedding band is exchanged during the wedding ceremony and is often simpler, such as a plain metal band or an eternity band.
Do I have to wear both rings together?Not at all. Some choose to wear only the diamond engagement ring, others wear both as a ring set, and some alternate between their wedding ring and engagement ring depending on the occasion.
Can engagement rings and wedding rings be resized?Yes. Ring resizing is common, especially after years of everyday wear. A local jeweler can ensure a comfortable fit for both.
What metals are best for durability?White gold, yellow gold, and rose gold are popular choices for their strength and beauty. Platinum is another durable option. Your choice depends on your lifestyle and personal preference.
What engagement ring styles are most popular right now?Classic solitaire designs, pavé settings, three-stone rings, and diamond wedding bands continue to be best sellers. Many couples also explore gemstones like sapphires or rubies for a distinctive look.
Can I engrave my wedding band?Yes, many couples add engravings to their bands to mark a date, name, or phrase that makes the piece of jewelry even more personal.
Your Love Story, Your Rings
Whether you choose a solitaire engagement ring, a diamond wedding band, or a paired ring set, your rings should reflect the essence of your relationship. At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, our expert jewelers help guide you through ring shopping with artistry, warmth, and care.
From the moment you say “yes” to the moment you say “I do,” your rings are more than jewelry. They are lasting reminders of the day your love story became forever.
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What's the Difference Between Silver vs. White Gold?
Which One Should You Choose?
In every piece of jewelry, there is a story waiting to be told. Sometimes that story shines in the cool luster of white gold. Other times, it glows with the softer light of sterling silver. Both precious metals belong to the family of white metals, and both are beloved for their elegance, versatility, and ability to elevate design. But each has its own personality, and knowing their main differences can help you choose the right one for your lifestyle, personal style, and your budget.
The Allure of White Gold
White gold jewelry carries a quiet brilliance: cool, luminous, and refined. It begins with pure gold, an incredibly soft metal in its natural state. To create white gold, jewelers blend it with white gold alloys such as palladium or nickel, creating an alloy of gold that is stronger, paler, and more durable for everyday wear. Most white gold pieces are then finished with rhodium plating, a reflective layer that enhances the brightness and improves scratch resistance.
White gold is a popular choice for engagement rings, wedding bands, and other fine jewelry worn daily. It offers a clean, polished white color that beautifully complements gemstones, especially diamonds and cool-toned stones like sapphires or aquamarines.
Over time, that rhodium plating may wear thin, especially on rings, and a quick re-plating will restore the original shine. This natural evolution is not a flaw; it’s a small part of the life your jewelry lives with you.
For clients with sensitive skin and metal allergies, it’s important to discuss the type of white gold alloys used. For example, some include nickel, which may cause allergic reactions. At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we’re always happy to guide you toward the best options for your comfort and hypoallergenic needs.
The Charm of Sterling Silver
Sterling silver jewelry has a softer, more relaxed kind of glow. Its undertone is warmer than white gold, though still part of the white metal family. Composed of 92.5% pure silver and 7.5% copper or other silver alloys, sterling is malleable enough for intricate designs, yet durable enough for everyday pieces like fine silver rings, earrings, and pendants.
It’s also the more budget-friendly option, making it an ideal choice for experimenting with custom design, commemorating a special moment, or gifting a piece of jewelry with personal meaning.
The biggest consideration with silver pieces is tarnish. Unlike white gold, silver tarnishes naturally over time through a process called oxidation, which results in a darker patina on the surface. Some clients love this character and charm, especially in vintage-inspired designs. Others prefer to keep their silver luminous, which is simple with regular cleaning upkeep or a professional silver polish.
While silver isn’t quite as hard as white gold, it’s perfect for many styles of fine jewelry, particularly when paired with strong design and craftsmanship.
So, Which Metal Should You Choose?
If you're creating something with lasting meaning—like an engagement ring, wedding ring, or heirloom that will be passed down—a white gold ring may be the better option for its longevity, gold content, and resistance to daily wear. It’s also ideal if you want to showcase a center stone with a sleek, white color that enhances clarity and brilliance.
If you’re building a small collection of expressive, meaningful jewelry or gifting someone with a custom design that’s all their own, sterling silver offers unmatched affordability and charm. It allows you to create beautiful, lustrous pieces without the higher price point of gold.
Whatever you choose, we’re here to help you select with intention and confidence. Our jewelers are artists, makers, and thoughtful guides. We consider not only the metal, but the memory and the story behind what you’re designing.
Because what matters most is not just the metal, but the meaning you create with it.
Let’s Create Something Meaningful Together
Stop by our intimate studio to browse our selection of fine jewelry or talk with a consultant about designing something in white gold or silver. Appointments are encouraged, but walk-ins are always welcome!
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