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Engagement Ring Settings: The 11 Different Types
When people think about engagement rings, the stone's the first thing that comes to mind. The sparkle, the shape, the carat size, but the setting is just as important. It determines how your center gem pops, how the ring fits on your hand, and how it fits into your daily routine.
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we design our rings in collaboration with our clients. That means understanding not just which diamond shapes you love, but how different types of engagement ring settings will actually impact the longevity of your ring and wedding bands.
Below is a rundown of the most common engagement ring setting styles and what to look for when choosing the one that feels just right for you.
What is an Engagement Ring Setting?
An engagement ring setting is the little framework that holds your center stone and any accent stones in place. It affects comfort, looks, and how the ring pairs with your wedding band. It's pretty crazy how different a round diamond can look depending on the setting style used.
There are heaps of different types of settings out there, and none of them are one-size-fits-all. The perfect engagement ring is the one that balances looks with your lifestyle.
1. Solitaire Setting
The solitaire engagement ring is the classic of all engagement ring styles. A single center diamond or gemstone takes center stage, with no side stones or fancy detailing to distract from it. This setting lets the stone do all the talking and pairs super easily with almost any wedding band.
A solitaire setting works with round diamond shapes, marquise cuts, and all sorts of other classic silhouettes. Some variations include using a six-prong design for added security, a knife-edge band for a sharper look, or a cathedral setting that elevates the center stone.
Solitaire rings are often chosen for their low-key look, easy resizing, and timelessness.
2. Prong Setting
The prong setting lets in loads of light to highlight the center stone. Prongs can be found in any number, from four to six or even more, to add extra security for those with active lifestyles.
Prong settings are a go-to in solitaire engagement rings, three-stone rings, and halo designs. Craftsmanship is key here, as well-made prongs will protect the stone while staying super light.
3. Bezel Setting
The bezel setting has a thin rim of metal that wraps around the center diamond or gemstone for a clean, modern look and added durability. Because the stone's fully protected around the edges, bezel settings are a good bet for active lifestyles.
Bezel settings can feel super low-profile and secure, making them comfy for daily wear. They look sharp in yellow gold, white gold, and rose gold, and pair beautifully with minimalist and vintage-inspired designs.
4. Halo Setting
A halo engagement ring surrounds the center stone with a ring of small diamonds to create extra sparkle and visual impact. A halo setting can make the center diamond appear bigger and add some serious dimension to the ring.
From the hidden halo, where diamonds sit beneath the center stone for a subtle shine, to the double halo for ultimate presence, there are loads of variations out there. Some halo settings add pavé details along the band for extra texture.
This setting style is perfect for those who love a bit of extra sparkle and intricate design.
5. Pavé Setting
The pavé setting's origins are French, literally meaning 'paved'. Small diamonds are set closely together along the band to create a surface that looks like it's paved with light. Pavé settings often feature smaller diamonds or small diamonds secured with teeny prongs.
This style adds a touch of brilliance without overwhelming the center stone and pairs beautifully with halo and solitaire designs. Because pavé involves heaps of accent stones, maintenance may be necessary.
6. Channel Setting
In a channel setting, accent stones are set between two strips of metal for a smooth and secure row of diamonds. Channel settings are commonly used on wedding bands and engagement rings with side stones.
This style is great for a sleek profile, making it a practical option for daily wear. Channel settings often feature baguette diamonds or round stones and pair well with art deco influences.
7. Three-Stone Setting
A three-stone engagement ring has a center diamond flanked by side stones, and it is often chosen for its symbolism, representing past, present, and future.
Side stones may be smaller diamonds, baguettes, or coloured gemstones. A three-stone ring offers balance, visual interest, and the chance to customise the design with meaningful stones.
8. Toi et Moi Setting
Toi et Moi's a French phrase meaning 'you and me'. This setting features two center stones set side by side. It's ideal for couples who want a ring that tells a more personal story. Toi et moi rings are amazing because you can get creative with the combinations. For example, pairing a diamond with a sapphire, or mixing various diamond shapes to create a nice contrast.
9. Cathedral Setting
A cathedral setting lifts the center stone up above the band with elegant arches, creating a pretty dramatic profile while also providing some extra structural support.
Cathedral settings work really well with solitaire, pavé, or three-stone designs, and you can pair them with just about any type of wedding band you like.
10. Split Shank Setting
With a split shank design, the band splits where it meets the center diamond, which is a really nice way to add some visual interest and make the center stone look bigger than it actually is.
Split shank rings often come with some extra details like accent stones or pavé, and look particularly good with halo and vintage-inspired designs.
11. Vintage-Inspired Settings
If you love the look of vintage engagement rings, then you'll probably be into vintage-inspired settings with all the fine details like milgrain, filigree, and art deco elements.
The goal is to create an heirloom-type feel that's timeless and elegant. They're perfect for anyone who's looking to add a bit of classic style to their look.
Choosing the Right Setting for You
When it comes to picking out an engagement ring setting, you need to think about how you live, what you like to look at, and how you want the ring to go with your wedding band.
Some questions we usually go over together are:
How low-profile do I need it to be?
How important is durability going to be for me?
Do I want a super simple look or something with a bit of extra pizzazz?
How well will the ring go with my wedding bands?
Am I going to need to resize it in the future?
As your jeweler, our job is to help guide you through all these decisions and figure out a setting that just feels right for you.
Designing Your Ring Together
We don't start with a display case at Adam Foster Fine Jewelry…we start with a conversation. Your engagement ring setting should support your center diamond, your lifestyle, and your love story. We help you create a ring that's truly one-of-a-kind by working with you to create a custom design that takes all these things into account.
The perfect engagement ring is not about going with the most popular setting; it's about finding one that fits you and your love story perfectly.
Start your design collaboration whenever you’re ready.
Which Goes First: The Engagement Ring or the Wedding Ring?
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, our take on this question is refreshingly straightforward. Traditionally, the wedding band goes on first, as it is nearest to the heart, with the engagement ring following on after. But what really matters here is what feels right for you and your unique love story.
That balance between old-school tradition and doing your own thing is a common debate in our studio. Rings carry deep meaning, but they're also meant to be worn with comfort and a sense of joy. So go ahead and do things your way, even if that means breaking with the norm.
Where the Tradition Came From
The idea of wearing rings on the left ring finger has a seriously long history. The ancient Romans believed a vein actually ran straight from the fourth finger on the left hand to the heart. They called it the vein of love, and though we've since found out that isn't actually true, the symbolism stuck around.
Eventually, the left-hand ring finger became the accepted spot for symbols of love, which is how engagement rings and wedding bands ended up there in the first place. During the wedding ceremony, the wedding band goes on first, to symbolise commitment and partnership. After that, the engagement ring goes back onto the same finger, on top of the wedding band.
That's the 'tradition' most people talk about.
Wedding Band First or Engagement Ring First? It’s Up to You!
So which one goes on first in everyday life? The wedding ring sits closer to the heart, with the engagement ring resting on top. That makes sense, since marriage is usually seen as the foundation of any relationship, and the engagement ring is a promise that led to that.
Of course, not everyone agrees. Lots of people prefer to put the engagement ring on first. Some do this simply because it looks better that way with their engagement ring design. Others do it for comfort, aesthetics, or because it just feels more meaningful to them. And some decide to only wear engagement rings on special occasions, while keeping their wedding rings on all the time.
There's no one right or wrong answer here. It's all about what feels right for you.
Getting Your Engagement Rings and Wedding Bands to Work Together
When you've got a ring set that's been custom-designed to work together, the order often makes sense. A simple solitaire engagement ring paired with a straightforward wedding band will sit beautifully in either direction. If you've got more dramatic designs involved, one way might look better than the other.
That's where working with clever jewelers who understand how rings sit on the finger really comes in handy. In our Frontenac studio, we often try on rings in different positions and then see how they feel rather than just guessing.
At the end of the day, it's all about what feels comfortable, looks good, and fits your personal style rather than what tradition says.
What Happens On the Wedding Day
On the big day, the engagement ring is usually swapped over to the right hand for a bit, which lets the wedding band be placed right on the left ring finger during the ceremony. Afterward, the engagement ring goes back into its usual spot. Some couples decide to leave the engagement ring on the right hand all the time, while others like to mix it up depending on the occasion.
Wearing Rings On Different Fingers or Hands
While the left hand is where things are usually done, loads of people wear their rings on a different finger or even on the right hand. In some cultures, the right ring finger is actually the norm for wedding bands. And lots of people switch between the two hands depending on what they're doing, such as work, travel, or special occasions.
After all, the meaning of the rings doesn't change, no matter where you wear them.
Modern Couples and Personal Choice
Modern couples are really into making intentional choices when it comes to their jewelry. They ask questions and care about things like design, ethics, and whether the rings fit well with their lifestyle. Whether your ring features a lab-grown diamond or a natural stone, or whether it's bold and eye-catching or understated, the important thing is that it reflects who you are.
And the question of which goes first becomes less and less important as you get to the heart of what makes the rings special to you.
Practical Considerations
There are a few things to think about when it comes to how you wear your rings. Resizing is one, especially if you're planning on wearing your rings all the time. Some people choose to solder their rings together for added security. Others prefer a bit of flexibility.
The design of your engagement ring setting will also impact how well the rings sit together. Low-profile designs sit really close to the finger, so pair up easily with wedding bands. More sculptural settings might need a bit more thought and a special kind of wedding band to get the look right.
These are just a couple of the things you might want to chat about with a jeweler before you make a decision.
Rings As Symbols, Not Rules
At the end of the day, engagement rings and wedding rings are all about love, commitment, and the story you're telling as a couple. Whether you wear engagement rings every day, or just on special occasions, whether you wear wedding bands alone or stacked up, it's all about intention, not order.
Your rings should make your life easier, not add to the stress.
FAQs
Which goes first, the engagement ring or the wedding ring?
Traditionally, a wedding band is worn first on your left hand with the engagement ring following soon after, but let's be real: personal preference should always be the top priority.
What’s the reason we use the left hand for engagement and wedding rings?
This tradition has been around for ages, and it all stems from an old belief in the vena amoris or “vein of love,” which was thought to connect the fourth finger on your left hand right up to your heart.
Can I ever wear my engagement ring on my right hand?
Absolutely. Loads of people wear their engagement rings on the right hand, either temporarily or permanently.
Do I have to wear both on the same finger?
No, some people wear them on different fingers or even on different hands. It's all about what feels comfortable for you and your lifestyle.
What if my rings don't quite fit together right?
If your rings don't fit well together, a jeweler can help design a wedding band that looks nice with your engagement ring, or even just adjust the fit by resizing it or coming up with a custom design.
What about modern couples? Is there a rule to follow?
Truth is, there is no one rule. Modern couples often just go with what feels right for them and means something to them.
Can I wear an eternity ring along with my engagement and wedding rings?
Absolutely, you can, and loads of people do. Eternity rings are often worn alongside wedding bands to mark special milestones like anniversaries.
Does the order in which I'm wearing my rings mess with the symbolism?
The symbolism of the rings is actually about the commitment, and not about the order in which they're worn.
Finding what feels right for you
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we think rings should always be about the people wearing them, which means taking a look at tradition, giving a nod to the symbolism, and then choosing something that feels right for your life and your love story.
Whether you stick with the traditional way of doing things or create your own little ring-wearing rhythm, the main thing is that your rings feel like they belong to you. When that happens, they're no longer just a bit of jewelry; they become a part of your story.
Start your design collaboration whenever you’re ready.
What’s an Eternity Ring?
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we describe an eternity band as a beautiful band of diamonds or gemstones that wraps all the way around your ring finger. It is a simple yet powerful symbol of lasting love and the story of your life together that keeps going and going.
That's how we put it in a nutshell. No jargon, just straightforward talk that gets to the heart of what an eternity band means.
Unlike an engagement ring, which marks the start of a proposal and a wedding ring, which commemorates the day you said I do, an eternity ring or band is all about celebrating the years that follow. It's not about kicking off a new chapter; it's about celebrating how your story just keeps getting more interesting.
The Story Behind the Eternity Band
The idea of a continuous circle representing eternal love isn't new, and has even been around for thousands of years. In ancient Egypt, the circle was a symbol of eternity and the infinite, and they really believed that the ring finger on your left had a direct link to your heart (a notion still with us today when it comes to wedding rings).
Fast forward to the modern eternity band, and you get the same idea: a line of stones that goes on forever, representing endless love and a relationship that keeps evolving but never breaks. That's why eternity bands are often given at a wedding anniversary, the birth of a child, or some other special milestone that deepens your love for each other.
It's a concept that really took off in the 20th century when De Beers came up with the idea of the diamond eternity band as a symbol of everlasting love. While the marketing certainly helped spread the word, the idea itself has really stood the test of time because it speaks so deeply to people.
Full Eternity Band vs Half Eternity Band
When choosing your eternity band, one of the first things to think about is whether to go for a full eternity band or a half eternity band.
A full eternity band has stones set all the way around the band, creating a gorgeous infinity effect from every angle. They make a real statement and are incredibly symbolic, but they do come with some practical considerations around durability and resizing.
A half eternity band puts stones on top of the ring and leaves the bottom section solid metal. This gives you the visual impact of an eternity band without some of the drawbacks, and is often a better choice for everyday wear. Plus, it’s a bit easier to resize.
As your jeweler, we'll work with you to decide which feels right for you and fits with your lifestyle.
Stones and Diamond Shapes
Eternity bands are often associated with diamonds, but that's not your only option. We can set rubies, sapphires, emeralds, or a birthstone in your eternity band, and some customers even choose lab-grown diamonds for their sparkle and value.
The cut of your diamond is also really important. A round brilliant is pretty classic, but you might also consider an emerald cut, princess cut, or something a bit more elongated. Smaller diamonds can give you a more delicate sparkle, or you can go for bigger stones for a real showstopper.
It's worth thinking about how your eternity band will feel on your finger long term - not just when you first put it on.
Ring Settings and Craftsmanship
The setting of your eternity band really determines how the stones are secured and how the band feels on your finger. Some popular settings include prong settings, which let the light in, channel set designs that protect the stones, and pave settings that create a lovely, soft glow.
Each setting has its tradeoffs. For example, a channel-set eternity band is great for everyday wear because it's durable, but a prong setting will let more light in. Bezel set styles are modern and sleek, and pave settings are romantic and delicate.
Our makers take every detail into account, from how the stones fit together to how the band will look and feel decades from now.
Choosing a Metal
The metal you choose for your eternity band will really shape its personality. Yellow gold is warm and classic, white gold is modern and clean, and rose gold is soft and romantic, especially with small diamonds.
Each metal behaves differently over time, which can affect how the ring wears and looks, and how it sits next to your engagement ring or wedding band. We'll discuss all this together, so you're not making a decision on your own.
When Is an Eternity Band Given?
Eternity bands are often given as an anniversary gift (especially for milestone anniversaries). They're also a lovely way to celebrate the birth of a child, often incorporating a birthstone to make the moment even more special. Some folks choose an eternity band as their wedding ring all on its own. Others add it to their engagement ring and wedding band to create a whole story. But honestly, there's no right or wrong here. The meaning comes from why you choose to give it, rather than when.
How Eternity Bands Fit In
An eternity band can be worn on its own, stacked with a wedding ring, or paired with a beautiful solitaire engagement ring to give it some contrast. How it sits on your hand is what matters. You want to make sure it's comfortable to wear, the height is just right, and all the rings get along.
We tend to design eternity bands with stacking in mind. We make sure they complement the other rings you already have, rather than trying to compete with them.
Eternity Band Frequently Asked Questions
What's the difference between an eternity band and a wedding ring?
Traditionally, a wedding ring marks the commitment you make when you get married. An eternity band is all about celebrating the milestones and the love that builds up after the big day.
Can an eternity band be resized?
Full eternity bands can be a real pain to resize because the gems go all the way around the band. Half eternity bands leave a bit more flexibility with sizing, though.
Are eternity bands durable enough for everyday wear?
Absolutely, as long as they're designed with the right thoughts in mind. You want the right setting and stone size to make sure it's going to last the distance.
Do eternity bands have to be diamonds?
No, diamond eternity bands are popular, but loads of people go for gems, rubies, or even birthstones because they're personal and mean something.
Which hand do you wear an eternity band on?
Most people wear it on their left hand ring finger and stacked with the wedding ring, but there's really no rule.
Are lab-grown diamonds suitable for an eternity band?
Yes, they are! Lab diamonds are a common choice and can offer some great consistency and clarity.
Is an eternity band the same as an infinity ring?
They're used pretty much the same way. Both are all about that never-ending love through a continuous line or a circular design.
How do I choose the right ring size?
Accurate sizing is key, especially with full eternity bands. We always recommend getting a proper sizing done before we finalise the design.
A Ring That Honours What Comes After
An eternity band is not about replacing your engagement ring or wedding ring. It's about honouring the life you've built around them. It's about a commitment that's been tested and deepened and chosen again and again.
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we design eternity bands the way we design everything else: by listening first, by understanding what you're trying to mark, and then by creating a ring that feels as meaningful as the moment it represents.
If you're thinking about an eternity band, we'd be thrilled to help you design one that tells your story beautifully.
Start your design collaboration whenever you’re ready.
How Much Should You Spend on a Wedding Ring?
If you have started ring shopping, you have probably already researched the question everyone asks: How much money should you spend on a wedding ring or engagement ring? Most people discover a wide range of opinions, a few outdated rules, and a lot of pressure from retailers who want to steer you toward a particular price point. At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we take a different approach. We sit with you, listen to your story, understand your priorities, and help you find the right ring for your budget and your life.
The truth is simple. There is no single number that works for everyone. Your wedding ring is a symbol of commitment, not a test of how closely you follow a rule of thumb.
Where the Salary Rules Came From
Many people still ask whether they should follow the well-known two-month salary or three-month salary rule. These ideas did not come from tradition. They came from a marketing campaign during the Great Depression that encouraged people to spend more on a diamond ring. Later variations, such as months’ salary, grew out of advertising rather than genuine cultural practice.
These rules do not reflect how real couples make decisions today. They also do not consider individual needs, from student loans to upcoming moves, to long-term goals you share as a couple.
Your financial situation matters more than any slogan.
What People Actually Spend
The average cost of an engagement ring varies dramatically by region. What someone pays in New York City is very different from what someone pays in the Midwest.
National surveys show a national average, but this number is shaped by luxury markets, outliers, and seasonality around Valentine’s Day and Black Friday. The same is true for the average cost of a wedding ring. Numbers can be helpful, but they rarely tell the full story.
What Affects the Price of a Ring
Your budget decisions often come down to priorities. A few factors that influence ring price include:
1. The center stone
A carat diamond, a lab-grown diamond, a natural diamond, moissanite, or a gemstone such as rubies or sapphires each has its own pricing structure. A one-carat diamond engagement ring will vary depending on cut quality, carat weight, color, clarity, and whether inclusions are visible to the naked eye.
2. The metal
White gold, yellow gold, and rose gold each offer a different visual story and care profile. Metal choice affects both budget and durability.
3. The engagement ring style
A solitaire may have a lower price range than a pavé halo because of the number of stones and the labor involved. More intricate settings require more time from the artisan who creates them.
4. The approach to shopping
Large jewelers and national chains often have a higher markup. A smaller jewelry store or a maker-led studio like Adam Foster Fine Jewelry can often guide you toward a higher-value outcome. Our focus is craft, clarity, and helping you understand the factors that truly shape cost.
5. Custom rings
Designing a ring with us can help you save money in unexpected ways. When the design fits your exact priorities, you avoid paying for features that are not meaningful to you.
How to Build the Right Engagement Ring Budget
There is no perfect formula, but there is a thoughtful process.
Step 1. Start with your actual financial picture
Your budget should support your life together, not strain it. Consider your current commitments and what feels comfortable for both of you.
Step 2. Consider long-term meaning, not short-term pressure
The most meaningful rings we make often involve personal details rather than large stones. Some include materials from an heirloom, some highlight a unique gemstone, and others place beauty in craftsmanship rather than size.
Step 3. Understand what matters most to you
For some couples, the priority is a higher carat. For others, it is a high-quality cut, a perfectly chosen metal, or a distinctive artistic detail that reflects their story.
Step 4. Learn before you buy
We take time to explain clarity grades, inclusions, GIA standards, metal differences, and how certain choices affect lifetime wear. This allows you to choose a high-quality ring without overspending just to meet a number.
Is an Expensive Ring Better?
Not at all. A larger carat or a higher price tag does not create a better marriage or a more meaningful moment. Beauty, comfort, and craftsmanship matter. Story matters. Symbolism matters. The perfect ring is the one that feels true to you.
A More Personal Way to Shop
Most couples who visit us are surprised at how approachable the process feels. You sit with our makers, talk through ideas, and explore options that work with your style and your budget. Whether you choose a lab-grown diamond, a natural diamond, a moissanite, or a meaningful gemstone, we design your ring with honesty and care.
You will never feel pressured toward a more expensive option. Our goal is to help you understand what creates value so you can make confident choices.
So, How Much Should You Spend?
Spend the amount that supports your life together, honors your personal priorities, and feels meaningful without feeling stressful. Ignore outdated advertising rules. Focus on craftsmanship, comfort, and authenticity.
Your rings are part of your love story. Their worth comes from what they represent, not from how closely they match the spending habits of strangers.
If you are beginning your engagement ring shopping journey and want clarity, calm guidance, and a collaborative design experience, we would be honored to help you find or create a ring that feels beautifully yours.
Start your design collaboration whenever you’re ready.
What Is a Bridal Set?
When you start ring shopping, it doesn’t take long before you’re introduced to a new vocabulary, like bridal set, engagement ring, wedding band, matching band, wedding ring set, and more. And if you’ve never designed or purchased important pieces of jewelry, the terminology can feel like its own little puzzle.
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we design rings with you, not for you. So our starting point is always clarity, calm, and your story. Let’s walk through what a bridal set really is and why many couples choose a set when planning their wedding day and wedding ceremony.
What Is a Bridal Set?
A bridal set (sometimes called an engagement ring set or bridal ring set) includes two rings designed to be worn together on your left-hand ring finger:
An engagement ring: Usually featuring a center stone such as a diamond, sapphire, or ruby, set in styles like solitaire, pavé, princess-cut diamond, or marquise.
A wedding band: A band crafted to sit flush against the engagement ring, creating a matching set that feels intentional and harmonious.
Together, these rings symbolize the beginning of your love story and the commitment you celebrate on your wedding day.
What Makes a Bridal Set Special?
1. A Perfect Match By Design
A bridal set is created so that the curves, angles, and proportions of both rings complement each other.
That means:
A matching wedding band that fits securely under or around the engagement ring
Seamless alignment between both rings for comfort and durability
A unified look that feels like one design rather than two rings competing for attention
When we design a bridal set in our Frontenac studio, we’ll often sketch multiple variations until we find the perfect match and the one that reflects your style and your story.
2. Harmony for Everyday Wear
Because the pieces are crafted together, they sit comfortably on your hand. There’s less friction between rings and less chance of unwanted movement, which is especially helpful for delicate settings like:
Pavé diamonds
Marquise or princess-cut shapes
Vintage-inspired prong arrangements
A well-designed set also helps protect the center stone, which can matter if you choose a more delicate gemstone like sapphire or ruby (or even a lab-grown diamond with unique faceting).
Engagement Ring vs. Wedding Ring vs. Bridal Set
Here’s the simplest way to think about it:
Engagement ring: Given during the proposal and features the primary stone.Wedding ring / Wedding band: Exchanged during the wedding ceremony.Bridal set: Both rings were created as one thoughtful design.
A diamond bridal set or wedding ring set takes the guesswork out of pairing two rings years apart. Instead, you start with a unified vision.
Common Metal Choices for Bridal Sets
Your metal sets the tone for the entire design. Some of the most popular options include:
White Gold
Bright, modern, and timeless. Perfect for highlighting a round diamond, a princess-cut, or any carat size where sparkle is the star.
Yellow Gold
Warm, classic, and deeply romantic! Beautiful with vintage-inspired settings, pavé details, or colorful gemstones.
Rose Gold
Soft, distinctive, and flattering on every skin tone. Often paired with nature-inspired designs or romantic silhouettes.
We often help couples explore each of these metals in person so they can see what resonates emotionally, not just visually.
Bridal Sets and Resizing
One practical advantage: Because the two rings are designed together, they generally resize more predictably than mismatched rings purchased separately. This matters if your finger size changes during life events or seasons (a very common, very normal thing).
Do You Need a Bridal Set?
Not necessarily. There’s no rule that says your engagement ring and wedding band must match. Many couples love the eclectic, layered look.
But a bridal set is a beautiful choice if you want:
A cohesive, harmonious design
A band that fits perfectly against your engagement ring
A unified piece that symbolizes your entire journey from proposal to wedding day
For some couples, the idea of a wedding set also makes the wedding planning process feel simpler and more meaningful.
Designing a Bridal Set at a Maker-Led Studio
Here’s where Adam Foster Fine Jewelry is different.
Most jewelers show you pre-made sets behind a counter. But here, you work directly with the artisans who sketch, solder, set stones, and polish every surface.
Your bridal set becomes a collaboration:
Bring your Pinterest boards, sketches, or even just a feeling
Explore shapes, metals, and stones, such as lab-grown diamond, sapphire, ruby,
round, marquise, solitaire, and more
See how each idea affects comfort, proportion, and durability
Watch your design come to life in our Frontenac studio
It’s not just choosing rings. It’s crafting the next chapter of your love story.
Ready to Create a Bridal Set That’s Truly Yours?
Whether you’re dreaming of a diamond engagement ring, a matching band, or a fully co-created bridal set, our team is here to guide you through every decision with education, transparency, and genuine care.
Your story is the starting point.Your rings are the story that lasts.
Start your design collaboration whenever you’re ready.
Ring Soldering: Pros, Cons, and Should You Do It?
When you begin wearing your engagement ring and wedding band every day, you may notice the two rings separating, spinning, or tapping against each other. Many people start exploring ring soldering as a possible solution, only to discover a swirl of mixed opinions online. At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we approach this decision the same way we approach all meaningful jewelry choices. We start with your lifestyle, your goals, and the story behind your rings.
If you need further help, here is a clear, collaborative guide to help you understand what ring soldering is, the pros and cons, and whether it is right for you.
What is Ring Soldering?
Ring soldering is the process of joining two rings, typically your engagement ring and wedding band, so they function as one. A trained jeweler uses heat, flux, and a filler metal to connect the rings at the base of the shank. Although online tutorials exist for jewelry making, silver soldering, and jump rings, soldering heirloom-level pieces is never a beginner project. Fine jewelry soldering requires technical skill, experience, and careful control of how heat interacts with metals and stones.
Different metals respond differently during soldering. Commonly soldered metals: yellow gold, white gold, rose gold, platinum, and sterling silver rings. Metals that cannot be soldered traditionally: tungsten, titanium, ceramic, and other modern performance materials.
Your jeweler will help determine what is safe for your specific rings, especially if you have a gemstone, pavé details, an inlay, or a bezel setting that may require additional protection during the process.
The Pros of Ring Soldering
1. Stability and Comfort
Soldering keeps your rings aligned so they do not twist, drift apart, or press into one another during everyday wear. Many people enjoy the smooth feel of a single unified ring.
2. Reduced Wear and Tear
Two independent rings can rub against each other, which can cause friction over time, especially around settings, delicate stones, and edges. Soldering minimizes contact and prevents unnecessary surface wear.
3. A Cohesive Look
For some bridal sets, a soldered connection completes the intended aesthetic. Your engagement ring and band move together as a single, elegant silhouette.
4. Fewer Sizing Adjustments
Soldering can help maintain a more stable fit, reducing the frequency of resizing as the rings are no longer shifting independently.
The Cons of Ring Soldering
1. Less Flexibility
Once soldered, you cannot wear your wedding band alone. If you prefer traveling, exercising, or working with just one ring, unsoldered might be better.
2. More Involved Maintenance
If you ever decide to separate the rings, your jeweler can do it, but the process requires additional labor and refinishing. It may also affect existing engraving or engraved textures.
3. Metal Limitations
Some metals simply cannot be soldered. If your ring includes tungsten or a specialty alloy, your jeweler will recommend alternative stabilization methods.
4. Warranty Considerations
Always check your ring’s warranty. Some warranties have guidelines for modifications. Others require prior approval for soldering.
Should You Have Your Rings Soldered?
There is no universal answer. The right choice depends on your lifestyle, how your rings fit together, and what you want your rings to feel like five, ten, and twenty years from now.
Soldering may be a good choice if:
Your rings constantly spin or separate
You want to protect fine details or a delicate gemstone
Your rings were designed as a ring set intended to function as one
Your engagement ring sits high and causes the band to move
You prefer a smooth, united feel on your finger
You may prefer to keep them separate if:
You want the option to wear your wedding band alone
You travel and prefer a simpler ring for daily wear
You anticipate a future ring size change
You occasionally wear your rings as pendants
Your ring material is not compatible with soldering
At our Frontenac studio, we can let you test what a soldered set would feel like before committing. Many clients find that experience clarifies their decision immediately.
Ring Soldering FAQ
What is ring soldering?
Ring soldering is the process of joining your engagement ring and wedding ring with a filler metal so they act as one unified piece.
Can any ring be soldered?
Most rings made of gold, platinum, or silver can be soldered. Rings made from tungsten or other hard alloys cannot.
Will soldering damage my rings?
When performed by an experienced jeweler, soldering is safe. Certain stones may need temporary removal depending on how they react to heat.
Can soldering be undone?
Yes. A jeweler can separate the rings and refinish them. This process requires care and may affect engraving.
Will soldering change my ring size?
Your size usually remains the same, but your jeweler will check the fit using a ring sizer to confirm comfort.
Does soldering void a warranty?
Some warranties allow soldering. Others require prior approval. Review your documentation before making changes.
Does soldering make the rings more durable?
It reduces the friction between two rings and helps protect settings and gemstones from unnecessary wear.
Is soldering necessary for bridal sets?
Not always. Some bridal sets nest naturally without soldering. Others benefit from the stability it provides.
Can I solder my rings at home?
We wouldn’t recommend it. Tutorials online offer basic jewelry-making step-by-step guides, but soldering fine jewelry requires professional tools and understanding. Home attempts can warp metal, damage stones, or compromise the structure.
Does metal color matter?
Yes. Each metal has its own soldering temperature and behavior. Gold is straightforward. White gold may require extra finishing steps. Rose gold has its own thermal characteristics.
Adam Foster Fine Jewelry Can Help You Make a Decision!
Whether you choose to solder your rings or keep them separate, the decision should support your life and your comfort. At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we treat ring decisions as conversations. You bring your rings, your preferences, and your concerns. We bring decades of craft, clarity, and maker insight. Together, we choose the option that feels most natural for you.
If you want a more stable fit or want to explore whether soldering is right for your rings, we would be honored to guide you through the process.
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Fine Jewelry vs. Fashion Jewelry: Understanding the Difference
When you choose a piece of jewelry, you are choosing more than an accessory. You are choosing something that will sit against your skin, follow you through everyday moments, and celebrate the milestones you will remember for years to come. Understanding the difference between fine jewelry and fashion jewelry helps you decide which pieces belong in your jewelry box, which belong in a keepsake drawer, and which are meant to be passed down as heirlooms.
Although both categories have their place, they are created with very different intentions. The key differences come down to materials, durability, craftsmanship, and the purpose each piece is meant to serve.
What Is Fine Jewelry?
Fine jewelry is crafted from precious metals such as solid gold, sterling silver, platinum, and alloys of white gold or rose gold. These pieces often feature genuine gemstones like sapphires, rubies, topaz, opals, and natural gemstones that have been shaped by skilled artisans. Even lab-grown diamond accents or small pavé details carry a level of quality that lasts for generations.
Fine jewelry pieces are made to endure. They are durable, high-quality, and designed to hold their beauty through everyday wear. When cared for properly, they do not tarnish, discolor, or fade. Their craftsmanship allows them to become heirloom pieces in time.
This is why engagement rings, wedding rings, tennis bracelets, stud earrings, and other high-end pieces belong in this category. Their value comes from both the precious materials used and the artistry behind their creation.
What Is Fashion Jewelry?
Fashion jewelry, often referred to as costume jewelry, is made from base metals or inexpensive materials. These may include brass, copper, or zinc, combined with synthetic stones such as cubic zirconia. Gold-plated or vermeil finishes offer the look of fine jewelry at a lower price point, but they do not have the same longevity as solid gold or sterling silver.
These pieces are often chosen for trend-driven styling or special occasions when you may want a bold look without the commitment of a higher price tag. The materials are lighter, the price tag is lower, and the intention is different. Fashion jewelry is meant for now, not forever.
Because they rely on metals that can discolor or tarnish more easily, and because plating can wear down with time, these pieces require more cautious jewelry care. Exposure to lotion, perfume, or water can accelerate wear, especially if you have sensitive skin.
The Key Differences: What Truly Sets Them Apart
1. Materials
Fine jewelry uses precious metals and precious stones.Fashion jewelry is made from base metals, synthetic stones, and gold-plated or vermeil finishes.
Fine jewelry includes:
14k gold
White gold
Rose gold
Sterling silver
Rhodium-plated finishes
Precious gemstones such as rubies, sapphires, and topaz
Fashion jewelry includes:
Base metals
Gold-plated or vermeil coatings
Synthetic stones or cubic zirconia
2. Durability
Fine jewelry is designed for everyday wear and long-term beauty. It resists tarnish, maintains its shine, and can be passed down.Fashion jewelry is more susceptible to discoloration and tarnish, even with proper care.
3. Craftsmanship
Fine jewelry reflects time-honored craftsmanship and attention to detail, often created by skilled jewelers and gemologists.Fashion jewelry is produced more quickly, usually with standard settings and mass-made components.
4. Longevity and Purpose
Fine jewelry becomes part of your story. It celebrates engagements, anniversaries, milestones, and meaningful moments.Fashion jewelry is meant to complement a trend or complete a temporary look.
5. Price Point
Fine jewelry is an investment because of the precious materials and craftsmanship.Fashion jewelry has a lower price point because the materials are less expensive.
How to Tell the Difference When Shopping
A hallmark or metal stamp is one of the clearest indicators of fine jewelry. Look for marks like:
14k
18k
Sterling or 925
Plat
In contrast, fashion jewelry may be stamped with:
GP (gold plated)
GEP (gold electroplated)
HGP (heavy gold plate)
No stamp at all
When in doubt, consult your local jeweler. We can help you understand which pieces belong in the fine jewelry category and which fall into the fashion jewelry category.
Choosing the Right Jewelry for You
There is no right or wrong type of jewelry. Each plays a role in a well-rounded collection.
Choose fine jewelry when:
You want something to last a lifetime
You prefer precious materials
You are choosing an engagement ring or a wedding ring
You want a piece worthy of becoming an heirloom
Choose fashion jewelry when:
You want fun, trend-driven pieces
You want to experiment with color
You are dressing for a theme or special occasion
You want lightweight pieces with a lower price tag
Fine jewelry is a long-term relationship. Fashion jewelry is a moment of play. Both can bring joy to your everyday life in different ways.
Caring for Each Type
Proper care extends the life of any piece of jewelry.
Fine jewelry requires:
Gentle cleaning
Occasional professional maintenance
Care around abrasive surfaces
Fashion jewelry requires:
Avoiding water
Keeping lotion, perfume, and oils away
Wiping gently after each wear
With the right jewelry care routine, even gold-plated or gold vermeil pieces can look beautiful for years.
Fine Jewelry is in Our Name
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we believe jewelry reflects who you are, how you live, and what you love. Your collection can include both high-quality fine jewelry pieces that last a lifetime and fashion jewelry that adds spontaneity and fun. With a thoughtful approach to craftsmanship, materials, and care, every piece of jewelry can bring beauty into your life.
What Is Heirloom Jewelry? Understanding the Meaning Behind the Pieces We Pass Down
Heirloom jewelry holds a different kind of beauty. It is more than gold, gemstones, or intricate designs. It carries the touch of family history, the memory of loved ones, and the weight of stories that live long after the moment they began. When someone brings us a piece of heirloom jewelry in our St. Louis studio, it arrives with more than sentimental value. It represents a legacy.
The Heart of Heirloom Jewelry
At its core, heirloom jewelry is any piece that has been handed down through family members. It may be an engagement ring worn for decades, a brooch chosen for a wedding day, a pair of sterling silver earrings from a grandmother’s jewelry box, or a locket that has quietly held its secrets for generations.
What separates heirloom pieces from the rest of a jewelry collection is not only age, but meaning. A piece of heirloom jewelry carries emotional value that far outweighs its monetary value. It is a sentimental piece that has stood the test of time.
Why These Pieces Matter
Heirloom jewelry pieces tell a story. They witness milestones such as graduations, birthdays, and weddings. They hold the memory of family members who once wore them, touched them, or cherished them. They travel from one generation to the next with a sense of continuity, becoming symbols of love, resilience, and tradition.
Some pieces feature precious gemstones like sapphires, rubies, or precious stones set in precious metals. Others are simple, delicate, and made from sterling silver. The beauty lies not in extravagance, but in connection.
Craftsmanship That Endures
Many heirloom pieces were crafted during a time when fine jewelry was made slowly, thoughtfully, and with exceptional craftsmanship. Jewelers carved details by hand, shaped every curve with care, and worked with gemstones as if each one were a treasure. This level of artistry allowed heirloom pieces to endure for decades, even centuries.
Durability plays a major role in why an heirloom ring or necklace can be worn for so long. The combination of quality materials and skilled workmanship ensures that family heirlooms do not simply survive but continue to shine.
The Emotional Value and the Financial Value
While some heirloom jewelry carries significant financial value, the emotional value is almost always greater. A piece does not need to have a high USD appraisal to be considered a family heirloom. Sometimes, the simplest heirloom jewelry piece has the deepest meaning because of who wore it or when it was gifted.
Many families choose to have an appraiser evaluate their heirloom jewelry to better understand its financial value. This can be helpful for insurance, estate planning, or simply to learn more about the origins of a special piece.
Repurposing and Preserving the Story
Not every heirloom arrives in perfect condition. Time can leave its mark. A prong may need strengthening, wedding rings may need resizing, or a brooch may need a new clasp. In other cases, a family may want to transform an heirloom jewelry piece into a new piece without losing its soul.
At Adam Foster Fine Jewelry, we are one of the few jewelers who welcome heirloom repurposing. We can take the gemstones, precious metals, or design elements you cherish and gently reshape them into something meaningful for today while preserving your family legacy.
A ring can become a pendant. A locket can be restored. Precious gemstones can be set into a modern band or kept exactly as they are.
Repurposing ensures that the story continues.
Heirloom Jewelry for Future Generations
When you pass down a piece of heirloom jewelry, you are not only gifting a special piece. You are giving future generations a reminder of where they come from and who came before them. A family heirloom becomes a touchstone during special occasions such as anniversaries, weddings, or the birth of a child.
Some families start their own tradition by choosing a meaningful gemstone or birthstone, incorporating engraving, or marking a milestone for the next generation to one day inherit.
Choosing Today’s Pieces With Tomorrow in Mind
Not all heirloom pieces begin as heirlooms. Sometimes they start as a gift, a moment, or a single decision. Engagement rings, wedding rings, lockets, or statement pieces can become tomorrow’s treasured heirloom ring.
When choosing fine jewelry today, many people consider both personal meaning and long-term durability, selecting pieces that feel worthy of becoming a lasting part of the family tradition.
Honor the Past While Creating Something Unmistakably Yours
Heirloom jewelry reminds us that beauty can hold memory. It carries the laughter, challenges, vows, and moments that shaped the people we love. Whether it is a ruby ring passed down by grandparents or a new piece created from repurposing an older design, heirloom jewelry tells a story that continues long after we are gone.
If you have an heirloom jewelry piece you would like repaired, restored, or thoughtfully transformed into something new, our studio is honored to help. We treat each piece as if it were our own, preserving the history while crafting its future.
What Color Jewelry Should I Wear?
One of the quiet joys of fine jewelry is discovering how certain colors seem to come alive on your skin. When the right metal or gemstone meets the right person, it feels effortless. It softens, brightens, or balances your overall look in a way that feels personal rather than styled.
Many people ask us how to choose the best jewelry color for their skin tone, eye color, or hair color. While there are helpful guidelines, the most important piece is simple: the perfect jewelry is the one that makes you feel most like yourself.
As makers and artists, we have spent years observing how color behaves in natural light and how different tones interact with the warmth or coolness of someone’s complexion. Below are thoughtful ways to explore jewelry colors through the lens of your unique skin undertones and personal style.
Understanding Skin Tone and Undertones
Skin tone and undertones work together, yet undertones often matter more when choosing between white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, or sterling silver. Undertones fall into three categories: cool undertones, warm undertones, and neutral undertones. You can notice yours by looking at your skin in natural light and observing the hue beneath the surface.
Cool Skin Tones
If your skin carries hints of pink, red, or blue, you likely have cool undertones. Jewelry colors in the white metals tend to complement you beautifully.Think white gold, platinum, and sterling silver jewelry. Cool tones bring out brightness in the skin and create a clean, luminous effect.
Gemstones like sapphire, amethyst, topaz, and other cool or jewel-toned stones add elegance without overwhelming your natural coloring.
Warm Skin Tones
If your skin reflects golden, peach, or olive hues, you may have warm undertones. Yellow gold suits warm skin tones especially well, enhancing the richness already present. Gold jewelry creates a lovely harmony with warm skin, and earthy tones become radiant: citrine, garnet, rose gold jewelry, and even earthy greens feel at home here.
Neutral Skin Tones
If you see a mix of both warm and cool hues, you likely have neutral undertones. Neutral skin tones enjoy easy versatility. Both white gold jewelry and yellow gold can work effortlessly, letting you fluidly switch between cool sophistication and warm glow.
Neutral undertones also welcome colorful gemstones. Sapphire, opal, amethyst, citrine, or even unexpected shades become part of a balanced palette.
How Hair and Eye Color Influence Jewelry Choices
Jewelry has a conversation with more than your skin. It interacts with your hair color and eye color, shifting your overall appearance.
Blonde Hair
Soft golds and rose gold add warmth, while silver jewelry brings clarity and brightness. For blondes with green eyes, sapphires and emerald-like greens can be especially striking.
Brown Hair
Brown hair creates a rich backdrop for many jewelry colors. Yellow gold deepens the glow of brunette tones, while white metals create contrast. Gemstones like amethyst, sapphire, or topaz shine beautifully.
Green Eyes or Brown Eyes
Color theory can be useful here. Green eyes respond well to purple hues like amethyst or the warm shimmer of gold jewelry. Brown eyes are naturally warm and pair beautifully with rose gold, yellow gold, or colorful gemstones that offer contrast.
When Personal Style Matters More Than Undertones
Even the best color analysis cannot compete with personal style. Some people feel most themselves in dainty studs or a simple white gold chain. Others prefer statement pieces that bring energy to their look. Jewelry design is deeply personal, and your instinct is often your best guide.
If you love the quiet strength of sterling silver, wear it proudly. If you are drawn to the romantic glow of rose gold regardless of undertones, let that be your guide. Jewelry is not only an accessory. It is an expression.
Mixing Metals: A Modern, Effortless Approach
One of the most common questions we hear is whether it is acceptable to mix white metals with yellow gold or rose gold. The answer is always yes. Mixing metals adds depth, individuality, and a sense of ease to your jewelry collection.
Layering jewelry colors allows you to pair engagement rings with wedding bands in contrasting metals or create an earring stack with multiple tones. This approach has a natural artistry that feels modern without losing its timelessness.
Choosing the Right Jewelry for Everyday Wear
The best jewelry color is the one you enjoy reaching for each morning. If you prefer versatility, white metals often blend with many outfits and seasonal palettes. If you love warmth, yellow gold might become your signature. If you enjoy color, gemstones like sapphire, amethyst, or citrine can bring life to your look.
Think about your lifestyle, the clothing you gravitate toward, and the kind of piece of jewelry that makes you feel at ease. Comfort is part of beauty.
A Note on Custom Work
If you are still unsure which jewelry colors suit you or you want to explore combinations that feel uniquely yours, we welcome you into our St. Louis studio. We can design rings, necklaces, or studs that echo your skin tone, personal style, and the textures or colors you love most.
Your jewelry should feel like it was made for you because with us, it is.